Adult FYI Raves Joey Ray's "Y&C" Appearance "One of the Best KSEX Interviews Ever"

Straight male porn stud Joey Ray appeared on my web talk show, The Young & the Curious, hosted by yours truly, last Friday night and opened up about everything from his close friendship with Dale Dabone to how he used to do coke off his three AVN Awards and how he "fucked up" his marriage by seeing Ariana Jollee behind his wife, Tiffany Ryan's back.

Oh but it gets better.

Tiffany Ryan called into the show. She's Joey Ray's ex-wife, though technically they're still not divorced - and living together! Ryan recalled how she left director Jim Enright for Ray after Enright attacked her and tried to strangle her!

Adult FYI's Gene Ross has the recap of what he calls "one of the best interviews ever on KSEX":


Porn Valley- In one of the best interviews ever on KSEX, Joey Ray was on The Young and The Curious show Friday night. Host Jason Sechrest as you might expect, lobbed a lot of gay material in Joey's direction. But the show really kicked into high gear when Tiffany, Ray's present/former wife [and the former Mrs. Jim Enright] called in. That's when the skeletons in the closet really danced.

"I've never been gay," Joey said after Jason made some more of his little digs.

"Well, just a little- I do wear some cool shoes and some pink shirts," Ray admitted.

"How many times have you sucked Dale Dabone's cock?" asked Sechrest. "That's what we all really want to know."

"Not once," claimed Ray.

"We don't tolerate liars on my show," Sechrest replied.

"You can talk all the smack you want," said Ray. "There is no lying. Don't make me donkey punch you, bitch." Ray went on to say that he was completely sober.

"Did you get those tattoos when you were sober?" Sechrest also wanted to know.

"I did it for my birthday last year," Ray answered. "We superstars always fuckin tattoo our bodies."

Asked if he was going the Britney Spears route by shaving his head, Ray said he was getting some great white sharks put on his skull.

"To ward off the other fuckin' sharks- beware bitches!"

Sechrest wondered what kind of drugs Ray had been on.

"I was doing a lot of blow and crystal," Ray answered, noting that he's ADD, dyslexic and hyperactive.

"One bump and I'm up for the whole weekend," said Ray. "I don't say nothing. I just sit there thinking about chicks blowing horses or getting gang raped by ten black dudes. Ten feet of dick or something."

Ray talked about how he lives in Florida and has his motorcycle there.

"I was driving like a nutcase and my phone fell out and smashed and I lost every fuckin' phone number imaginable- every producer, every director, every whore. Cause they're all whores! Stay away from women!"

Ray in the same breath wished that he were gay.

"To be honest with you? My life would probably be much easier for Joey."

Ray said he felt good because he hadn't been doing any drinking or drugs in eight months.

"I came back four weeks ago- I've been working non-stop; I'm going to win actor of the year," he continued. "I'm going two huge movies right now- I'm doing something for HBO and they're blown away by my performance."

"Humility becomes you," laughed Sechrest making more snide comments.

"I'm going to donkey punch you with my balls!" Ray threatened with a chuckle.

"I was stealing the show- the director wanted to suck my dick and he was straight," Ray added. "Electrifying."

Ray acknowledged that he's probably lost half his hair and is going for the "Transporter" look.

"It's all right, though- I have the pizzazz and the charm."

Asked who his favorite girl was to have sex with, Ray said the best female porn performer to ever live was Belladonna.

"To this day!" he enthused. "Hands down- there is no creature on earth. That is perfection. Her sex drips out of her pores. I would marry that girl in a heartbeat. I would cheat on my wife with her."

"Who's your wife?" Sechrest asked.

"We don't want to go there," said Ray. "Jim Enright's ex-wife. She left him for a young porn star and he left his wife at the time for a young porn star, Tiffany."

The geneology got a little complicated as to who was cheating on who but it sounded like Ray then cheated on Tiffany during a Hustler shoot in Miami.

Asked how Dale Dabone was, Ray said he was doing really well.

"He has a girl friend- he's very happy, he has a real job." Ray said they ride bikes and in Florida there's no helmet law.

"So we're nuts." Ray is living in Naples and Dabone in West Palm Beach. Ray grew up in Boston.

"Where real men are born," he said. "Like Boston, New York, Jersey and Philadelphia. We'll fuckin' beat your asses in. People here talk so much shit. You know what we do? We hear this, we do that, baaaaaaaaaam."

Sechrest was convinced that Ray may has been sober more like 8 hours than 8 months.

Ray noted that he was one of the first kids on Ritalin.

"I feel for my mother because I was a crazy, fuckin' kid." Ray as a kid lit a friend's house on fire.

"I was an altar boy and went to Catholic school- I was a virgin until 18. Is that crazy? But I was never diddled by a priest, though."

Ray explained that he just needed to get away from porn awhile and would stay in this time for a good six months.

"I'll take off the winter when nobody works anyway."

Asked what was going on with Tiffany, Ray said they were friends and she has a boyfriend.

"And he's colored." The last time he and Tiffany had sex was maybe four years ago, according to Ray.

"Do you miss her?" Sechrest asked.

"In what way?" asked Ray. "I talk to her all the time." Ray said he was so in love with her but conceded, "What relationship lasts in this business?"

Asked why he's still in it, Ray replied, "What am I going to do- work in McDonald's? Tell me what I'm going to do? I have skills but I'm not going to go backwards in life. I used to be an iron worker but I'm not going back to that."

Ray suspected that he'll probably work hard for another five years in the business then see what happens.

Ray again responded to the question that he misses Tiffany but said it's not going to happen because of him.

"I'm fucked up- I'm probably going to die single and lonely."

Sechrest mentioned a few porn stars who've made a relationship work particularly Voodoo and Nicole Sheridan.

"They don't fuck for money any more, dude," said Ray. "They'te probably the only couple that's going to last." Sechrest mentioned Kim Chambers and Scott Styles.

"Oh yeah- how long did they last?" Ray replied making his point. "They're not together any more." For now Ray said he's going to bust his ass and do for himself. He'll be 37 in May. Sechrest said the hardest years are 29-33. To which Ray said he was at the pinnacle of his career during that period.

"I was making crazy money and having fun- I have four AVN awards," Ray said. "I've been nominated at least 25 times. I've done cocaine off every one of them [the awards]."

Asked what the awards were for, Ray said he couldn't remember who he fucked yesterday.

Ray talked about how he got the name Joey Ray, that he was a Chippendale.

"The guy that took us all in and took care of us? And just the greatest guy on earth- his stage name was Joey Ray. The minute I got in porn, it hit me, Joey Ray, a cool, sexy name. I didn't want a stupid name like Dick Hertz."

According to Ray, the other Joey Ray is now living in New Jersey, very successful and thinks it's the coolest thing that Ray took the name.

Tiffany then called in. Ray said she had a sexy voice and should be doing 900 phone lines.

Asked why she left Jim Enright for Joey Ray, Tiffany said after ten years of marriage, Enright was completely psychotic.

"He tried to kill me," she said, claiming that on a Jill Kelly shoot he tried to strangle her. Tiffany didn't have the slightest clue why that happened.

"After being together 11 years in this business, he lost it- after an AVN award show, Mr. Ray decided to kiss me because he thought [Jim] and I were brother and sister. He didn't know until Dale woke him in the morning and asked if he realized what he did last night."

Asked if she was friends with Dabone, Tiffany said, "Of course- you mean the other wife?" Sechrest roared saying comments like that only feed the rumors.

"They've never been together but wish they could be," she laughed. Tiffany pointed out that she and Ray were still married.

"We forgot to sign a couple of pages," laughed Ray.

"We've been trying to get a divorce for three years," Tiffany added. The last time they had sex together was three years ago.

"Wasn't it the best sex we had, though?" asked Ray. The reason they don't continue, says Tiffany, is that Joey has completely lost his mind.

"He's getting it back a bit," she conceded. Tiffany also said that Ray's still living with her even though she has a new boyfriend.

"But you never get over it," she said of the former relationship. Sechrest wondered if she might consider a reconciliation if Joey kept up the good behavior. She said, yes, provided there was a lobotomy also involved.

"We'd rather be in each other's lives in some capacity than not being in each other's lives at all," she continued. "We really do love each other and care about each other."

Sechrest was trying to get to the bottom of what happened between Ray and Tiffany.

"Two words," she said. "Ariana Jollee."

"Nothing happened," muttered Ray.

"Nothing happened?" asked Tiffany incredulously. "He told me he was going to work and he was going to stay really late. The dumbshit didn't realize I could go to his voicemail and there was a message from Ariana telling him where to pick her up. I took the key to the house, broke it off in the lock so he couldn't get in the front door and threw all his shit out."

Ray said he's no longer with Ariana. Sechrest wondered how long they had been together.

"Tell him about the gonorrhea and chlamydia story," Tiffany told Ray.

Sechrest was puzzled because he once saw Ariana and Joey together at AIM.

"And this was a long time ago- I remember Ariana being in there with you [Joey] and you being this is THE girl." Ray said that's why he's staying by himself.

"I'm just a fuckin' idiot," he conceded. "I'm just a man." Tiffany said it took Ray a long time to get to that point of acknowledgment that he used to blame her. In the same breath Tiffany said Ray wasn't mentally strong enough to separate sex from emotion, that she could fuck him with no problem.

"A dick is a dick," she added. "If he'd eat my pussy that would be a different story. That he's really good at. But he's a good guy. He's just trying to get his life back together and I'm going to be the person that's bigger and put our past behind us and try to help him get to a better place."

"Tiffany, how do you make your money?" Sechrest asked.

Ray said that was a bad question.

"My father was murdered a year ago," she answered. Sechrest said this was turning into a Barbara Walters interview.

"She can handle the drugs," Ray added. "She had an 8-ball on the table the other day. I looked at it but didn't do it. I looked at it and said I couldn't do even one litle bump of it because I knew where that was going to leave me. All I did was watch TV."

Sechrest said he'd probably do the same thing in that situation and Ray commented that Jason would probably have put it in his asshole.

Tiffany remembered a time when she ate Joey's ass then tried to kiss Dale telling him what she had done.

"Dale freaked out an almost threw up," she said. "Dale's a great guy, very talented but very vanilla."

"Yeah, his girlfriend pisses on him now, whatever," Ray added. Tiffany imagines that he'd done it fucked up.

"He wouldn't do it sober." Sechrest also wondered about Ray's obsession with the donkey punch and Tiffany told how Ray tried doing it to her mother the other night.

"He's chasing her around the house telling her he was going to donkey punch her."

Sechrest also wondered why Joey didn't bring a girl with him to come on the show.

"He could have brought Raylene, my ex," volunteered Tiffany.

"Fuck that whore!" exclaimed Ray. "Fuckin' dirty skeezer." Tiffany pointed out that she shared a threesome with Raylene and Enright and when she met Joey, she left both of them.

"Joey Ray just did it for me."

Sechrest noted that Ray used to model for Calvin Klein.

"When I was a skinny crackhead, when I weighed 170," Ray said, claiming that he'd let no male models touch him.

"Now it doesn't matter- just give me some fuckin' money."

"Gene Ross will have a field day trying to transcribe this one," said Sechrest.

"Fuck him!" replied Ray. "Fuckin' faggot."

"I love Gene Ross and he's not a faggot," Sechrest told him.

"I'll make him a bitch," predicted Ray. "I'll fucking get some Saran Wrap and fucking piss all over his face with Saran Wrap."

"Why don't you like Gene Ross?" Sechrest asked.

"Because he's got nothing else to do- he talks smack about people he doesn't know anything about. It doesn't matter. I'm not into gossip, it doesn't matter."

On the other hand Ray said he liked Sechrest.

"You're a good person."

"And you don't think he [Ross] is?" Sechrest asked.

"I don't know him and he doesn't know me," said Ray.

"Then don't judge him," Sechrest cautioned.

"Then why does he judge people he doesn't know?" Ray asked.

"He's not judging you," Sechrest said.

"I'm sure he's said millions of things about me and Dale," Ray replied.

"Tell me one," said Sechrest.

"I don't know- I don't read that shit," answered Ray. "I'm not into the gosip stuff."